Chivalry: a word rarely used, and even far less practiced in today’s age. Its roots began in the foundation for the conduct and character of a medieval knight during the 10th century and over time progressed to represent the charming manner in which a gentleman would court his lady of choice. What began as protection for widows and courage in the face of danger has now become a coat in a puddle or a door held ajar. Protection? Yes, but merely from wet shoes. Courage? Yes, but only in the face of a heavy door.
Today’s man need no-longer fight off invaders like the knights of old, unless perhaps they’re attempting to invade their lady’s heart. When was the last time a door was held open for you? Was it a moment of chivalrous courage from a person in hopes of winning your heart? Or was it a subtle act of kindness shown by a complete stranger? While walking from door to door at Monroe Community College, one can’t help but notice the contagious effect of chivalry. Once a door has been opened for another, a chain reaction starts! Almost always, the recipient pays forward the kind deed by holding the door open for the next unknown “damsel in distress,” even if that damsel is a man. Unfortunately, a lack of chivalry produces the same effect. A door shut in a stranger’s face spreads like cancer from person to person. The choice is up to you: be the courageous knight who sparks valor wherever they go, or be the faint-hearted rival that leaves bitterness in their wake.
Brian Hawes, Student
The MCC Civility Project
Amy Greer Housing & Residence Life 01/30/2013 |