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Chivalry or a Random Act of Kindness?


Chivalry: a word rarely used, and even far less practiced in today’s age.  Its roots began in the foundation for the conduct and character of a medieval knight during the 10th century and over time progressed to represent the charming manner in which a gentleman would court his lady of choice.  What began as protection for widows and courage in the face of danger has now become a coat in a puddle or a door held ajar.  Protection?  Yes, but merely from wet shoes.  Courage?  Yes, but only in the face of a heavy door. 

Today’s man need no-longer fight off invaders like the knights of old, unless perhaps they’re attempting to invade their lady’s heart.  When was the last time a door was held open for you?  Was it a moment of chivalrous courage from a person in hopes of winning your heart? Or was it a subtle act of kindness shown by a complete stranger?  While walking from door to door at Monroe Community College, one can’t help but notice the contagious effect of chivalry.  Once a door has been opened for another, a chain reaction starts!  Almost always, the recipient pays forward the kind deed by holding the door open for the next unknown “damsel in distress,” even if that damsel is a man.  Unfortunately, a lack of chivalry produces the same effect.  A door shut in a stranger’s face spreads like cancer from person to person.  The choice is up to you: be the courageous knight who sparks valor wherever they go, or be the faint-hearted rival that leaves bitterness in their wake.

Brian Hawes, Student

The MCC Civility Project

Amy Greer
Housing & Residence Life
01/30/2013